Friday, March 15, 2013

The First Month

I have to admit, I knew I had a lot of stuff, but my lord I didn't know I had that much stuff. Between clothing, furniture, high school memorabilia, and books, I could have filled an apartment just from the stuff  I stocked in my room. Of course, I did still need to collect some of the major luxuries like a couch, a television, and my man's dream computer; but we focused on gathering the little necessities also, like dishes, tuberware, and food. Nevertheless, even when you feel like you've gathered all the things you can think of, you always end up making several more trips to the store for random things like a cupcake tin or a light bulbs, it's just inevitable.
Then there was the annoying list of to-dos, like changing your mailing address, running back and forth to fit everything into your tiny car, and if you're like me doing a very thorough cleanse of the apartment. My boyfriend laughed and told me they clean the apartments before we moved in, but I insisted on cleaning the shower before we jumped in and the counters before we cooked, and just as I feared it was dirty. Then we had other things to worry about, like a couch; we were a little tired of sitting on the floor to watch TV,  so we searched Craigslist for free furniture and found something we liked. Unfortunately, the lady that was giving it away apparently didn't know how to clean her couch; it was stained and covered in dog hair. So I did a simple vinegar wash after vacuuming both the chair and couch. There are still a few stains, but the hair is now only from our dog, and the baking soda under the cushions took away the smell of dog.
Now my man needs about as much attention and compassion as a rock, but then there's me, I love attention, and I need compassion, and even though we had a big personality difference, he gives me the time of day and I try to give him all the little things he didn't know he was missing. I try to cook and clean, and keep up the house while he's off at work, and vice versa. We enjoy relaxing at home, food, and watching movies; we also both love our games, him much more than I, but we manage our time well, and make sure we both have time together. So far we are very happy in our new home, and the only thing we have to manage is our small kitchen space and not becoming to comfortable.
Enjoy my recipes, exercises, home management, and natural alternatives! :)
Even our little man is all tuckered out from the move.

2 comments:

  1. Just thought you should know that your boyfriend is a liar and a piece of crap and he will ditch you and that baby like a hot skillet, just like he did me and all his other baby mamas. He won't call your kid. He won't write your kid. He won't send any gifts for your kid. And if you try and show up unannounced with your kid so that he can't disappear while you are in town, he will tell you that you have to leave because he has to get ready for work. Then he will offer to give up his rights to your kid "for your and his benefit" so that he can try to get out of child support. Oh, and I hope he remembers your kid's name, because he forgot what my son's name is. Give him a hint. Tell him it's not Sean. Everything he has told you about all of us was a lie. I didn't leave him. Baby mama number 2 didn't leave him. Baby mama number 3 (and mama to baby #4) didn't leave him. Only baby mama #4 (baby #5) left, because she saw through his bullshit. So, good luck. You are going to need it. And tell "grandma" that all of the letters and birthday cards she sent to her grandson with all of the addresses I have given her with each move have been much appreciated. Oh. Wait. There weren't any from her either. Guess we know where he gets it from.

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    1. Shelby Camaro,
      I do not appreciate these kinds of comments on my blog. I have nothing but respect and admiration for my boyfriend. I have been with him for quite some time now and have seen his true colors, and I believe that they are magnificent. I'm sorry if you get offend over the fact that I don't take your advice, but it is only because I do know the man you are trying to bring down and he isn't at all how you describe. He has his downfalls, but everyone does, and I don't take sides on his past. I think both parties were responsible for where they are now. Although, I guess I am a little biased, since I am happy he ended up with me. We make each other happy and to us that is good enough. As for Grandma, she expresses to me constantly that she would love to see her grandchildren. I only wish she was given the chance to do so. Lastly, if you are going to search me out and post things about my significant other and his family, maybe you should check first and remember who you are talking to. I am someone who loves him and is happy with him, so your drama is not needed here. I plan on building a life with him, and I respect your forewarning, but I am a grown woman and can make these kind of decisions for myself.
      Respectfully Yours,
      Emily Conrad

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